If anyone ever says to you that women should dress properly in order to avoid sexual assault or harassment, please send them the link to this video, which shows girls in head-to-toe Islamic dress being harassed by a mob of males.
A street harassment mob seems like the most terrifying thing ever.
From Al Arabiya News:
Police in the Saudi city of Jeddah arrested on Sunday one man suspected of harassing two girls on the city’s Corniche after a video of a group of teenagers and young boys collectively harassing the two women was circulated on social media.
Authorities launched an investigation into the incident and are in pursuit of the remaining harassers, Al Arabiya News Channel reported.
The video shows a group of teenagers and young boys collectively harassing two women along a park in Jeddah’s Corniche. It is unclear when the video was filmed, however it was uploaded to YouTube in the past week.
A police source told Al Arabiya that authorities in Jeddah are analyzing the video to identify those involved in the incident and summon them.
Here’s the video:
At one point it seems that they are completely surrounded and cannot move, and one of the girls seems to be clearly frustrated.
If you’ve never experienced street harassment before, it’s a mix of feeling unsafe, objectified, anxious, and dirty all at the same time. I don’t know what I’d do if I was ever surrounded like this. I probably wouldn’t leave my house again for days.
They say that the abaya, or other types of Islamic dress is supposed to protect women from the male gaze, or keep men from being tempted by women. But here these girls are, covered from head to toe except their eyes, and they are not protected at all. Street harassment can happen to anyone, whether they’re wearing a bikini, or pajamas, or an abaya with a head scarf.
A few days ago, Arab News reported that there is new information about events that led up to the harassment mob. Apparently, there’s a new video, shown below, which shows the girls acting “provocatively“:
The new video showed the two girls driving a quad bike at the seashore, waving their hands and gesticulating at the boys.
A number of people condemned the provocative behavior of the girls. A few called for accountability of the two girls as they started it; others said that it doesn’t justify their harassment and that punishment for their harassers should be stiff…
Musa Kalo, a Saudi journalist, said on his WhatsApp account that the video shown on the channel and posted on social media revealed the true character of the girls, who provoked the boys in the first place and showed “immoral behavior” while riding the desert bike on the Corniche.
“Most of us watched the video of the harassment that occurred in Jeddah, but the video shown on MBC revealed the real reason for this harassment; I hope quick sanctions will be launched against the girls and boys who showed immoral behavior,” he said.
Another social media user, Shazia bint Abdat, said the video showed the immoral behavior of the girls. They started harassing the boys first and were trying to grab the attention of the young men, while riding on the bike which was also improper behavior.
“We wear abya to cover and protect ourselves. It doesn’t mean that after wearing abya women are allowed to move around among men. Not only this, they were totally wrong in their behavior which showed that they were trying to catch the attention of the boys. The girls are the main culprits here,” said Abdat.
Ah, ok. So it’s the girls’ fault. Even though they live in a society where men have much more power over them. Even though there were 20-30 boys and 2 girls. I guess the boys simply could not control themselves and just had to form a mob around a them. They had no other choice, right? And how dare these girls ride bikes, I mean, how immodest of them to think that they can have fun. How dare they try to catch the boys’ attention, something no girl in the history of the world has ever done.
It’s the girls’ fault. They were the ones being provocative. Boys will be boys. The girls shouldn’t have been there. They were asking for it.
Here’s another terrifying video of women getting harassed in Saudi Arabia.
Street harassment is common in KSA, and people are using social media to fight back. Al-Monitor reports:
In Saudi Arabia’s virtual world, which is way ahead of its reality, a Facebook page titled “Childhood without harassment” was created to shed light on the issue of child molestation. The page was created after an incident in which minors were raped in the city of Jeddah and in response to the light punishment given to the criminals. The punishments were limited to several lashes and short prison stays against perpetrators who caused great psychological and physical devastation to the victims.
A study conducted by a female Saudi researcher about “sexual harassment of women” on a sample of women aged between 18 and 48 has shown that 78% of respondents claimed to have experienced sexual harassment directly, while 92% said that sexual harassment is on the rise. The study found that 27% of them have been subjected to verbal harassment; 26% were subject to “tarqim” attempts, which is the attempt to pass on a phone number; 24% were subject to harassment by looks; and 15% were physically touched…
In a study of 24 mostly Western countries, Saudi Arabia was ranked third in the rate of harassment.
Third out of 24 countries. Wow. My first thought is to assume that the high rate of harassment in KSA has something to do with women’s oppression and sexual repression. But given that street harassment is also very common in places where women are supposedly less oppressed, and where sexual expression is allowed, like the US and Europe, I don’t think it’s that simple. I think what it comes down to is patriarchy. Sexual harassment, and violence against women in general, is just another way for men to control women. No matter what women wear or do, no matter what our religion or culture is, patriarchy will find a way to hold power over us, and a reason to blame us and shame us for it.